It's Just Social Media

Other than keeping up with old acquaintances, friends and family, one of the many purposes of social media is to make new connections. 💙🌺🦋

Soooo, If you get deleted from someone's social media page and you know each other IRL, please, don't get in your feelings. 🙅🏾‍♀️

IT'S SOCIAL MEDIA Lol. 🙆🏾‍♀️

HOPEFULLY, ya'll are still cool. ☺️

They're possibly just making room for new "friends" so they can: 

1. glean from others 🎉

2. develop and grow 🎉

3. be better and more diverse as a person, in different areas of their life. 🎉

-Myesha Marie 🤗

You Have a Choice

How the seed of envy starts... ⚠️

Envy- a feeling of discontented or resentful longing aroused by someone else's possessions, qualities, or luck.

Take accountability, redirect your focus and know that it will take work, hard work. 

Part of that work is the inward work. 💙

Change how you think, how you see, and what areas you put forth your effort. 💪🏾

Do more than you plan and talk. ✊🏾

Know that consistent push in one direction will produce something...you depend on what that something is. ✍🏾

Search for Discipleship Training

Many people have spiritual experiences, and because of what we've been taught, or lack of teaching/understanding/belief, we dismiss them. Or wonder more about them but never think to seek God for further information. There is more. As I have said before, development never stops. Even spiritually. 

Due to the lack of discipleship training within the body of Christ/ministries, many wonder where to go to learn more besides what Holy Spirit teaches and their local assembly. Start there. Ask Holy Spirit to guide you to pure teachers and teaching. He will. Continue to read and study the word and Jesus' life/ministry. Continue to pray. Ask for wisdom and discernment. Transformation in heart, mind and character. We need more than just manifestation of spiritual things yet have bad character. We need to build good character, too. Stay trusting and obeying. 

Time out being limited, when we have access to the kingdom of the True and Living God. 

I have yet many things to say unto you, but ye cannot bear them now. Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come.

John 16:12‭-‬13 KJV

And Jesus came and spake unto them, saying, All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth. Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen.

Matthew 28:18‭-‬20 KJV

Now concerning spiritual gifts, brethren, I would not have you ignorant. Now there are diversities of gifts, but the same Spirit. And there are differences of administrations, but the same Lord. And there are diversities of operations, but it is the same God which worketh all in all. But the manifestation of the Spirit is given to every man to profit withal.    

1 Corinthians 12:1‭, ‬4‭-‬7 KJV

And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers; for the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ: till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ: that we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive; but speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ: from whom the whole body fitly joined together and compacted by that which every joint supplieth, according to the effectual working in the measure of every part, maketh increase of the body unto the edifying of itself in love.

Ephesians 4:11‭-‬16 KJV

The right stuff

I have passed over divinely sent opportunities, timely exits, relationship connections and more. 

It wasn't until later after the fact, did I realize I should have said yes, should have left, should have formed that relationship. Sometimes it was soon after, that I realized it. Sometimes, even in the moment because I moved in fear instead of faith/courage. 🤦🏾‍♀️😩

One thing I am grateful for, is another chance. Another chance to partner with God in fulfilling my destiny and pushing forth His Kingdom. 

We all have a part to play. Just sharpen your listening skills and amp up your faith and say yes, next time. IYKYK 

When God says Yes. You Agree.

Grace for me and you

Grace is easy to receive. 

We can't give grace while withholding love. 

Yes, it hurt but unless you know that God wants you to dissolve the relationship (if abuse involved, LEAVE no permission needed) and walk away. Discuss, cleanse your heart and forgive. 70*7

We can't give grace while withholding love.

God is love and he gives grace. If we are made in his image and are disciples of Jesus Christ...we live as he lived. 

Never said it was easy. That saying, "If they treated Jesus that way what makes you any different?" 

Spirit living a human experience.

Toss the Echo Chambers

Expand your mindset and your life experience. 
Move outside of your echo chamber. 

That's the group that will likely never address low character and the behavior that matches. They'll just agree when you complain about life. When things don't go your way, that's the group that you'll run to/call so they can affirm your feelings. Instead of pointing out the obvious, you were probably the cause. Or you ignored signs to 🛑 and not proceed in that business, relationship or decision. 

They'll prefer you to stay the same, so they don't lose you or have to change, too. 

Lose you: changes in mindset and perspective makes it challenging to stay around the same circle. You won't fit nor be completely comfortable. Now that your mindset is not similar. 

Not necessarily have to cut off, but distance does becomes a factor. 

Change: Your growth will encourage them to re-evaluate life and possibly want to grow too.

Ways to love

 If your intentions are pure and you're growing in maturity, you will find a way to express love. The way your significant other needs it. Not just in the way you like to give it. 

Some, do not have the maturity nor the capacity to show you love the way you need it. It's okay. Hopefully you know that before committing fully. You don't want to be in a relationship full of disappointment and regret which can lead to resentment. 

Measure out the cost. Ask the questions. Know your path and if they're supposed to be a part of it. Temporary or permanent.