Loses and Lessons

In the past, when I misplaced things, I would frantically look for them. Over time I developed a different method. I would say within, show me where it is and I would get an image of where it was. It'd be there. 

If I ask and I get nothing, I don't go back to being frantic, I know I must wait. With ease, later it'll appear. If it never returns, I've learned that it's no longer mine or meant for me.  

I started applying this to relationships, too. When I noticed a pattern and a flow of its development, outside of my control. Now, unless it was due to my carelessness, not being focused, or not addressing something I should have...I have lost nothing. 

It and the relationship have served and fulfilled their purpose. I/We have lost nothing. Only gained. Experiences and lessons. If our perspective has been purified and no longer tainted by what we thought we were entitled to. 

Written 10/25/22

Myesha Marie